Yesterday a young candidate asked me, "If you were me, what would you do? Go for this new position, stay and get promoted, or wait for something better to come along?" He seemed bewildered, almost distraught with the weight of his decision. We've all experienced this feeling. I said to him, think of each career step not as a ladder to climb, a good or bad decision, but as an opportunity to stretch yourself, gain insights, and learn new things. Your career will be marked by the total body of your work.
By constantly selecting -- devouring -- opportunities for personal development (isn't this what a promotion is?), you will differentiate yourself, prompting others to take notice because you become a solution to their problem. The result, over time, is advancement. The path is not linear or always up. It is a zig-zag road defined by failures, heartaches, satisfaction, and celebration. Responsibility is heaped on those who don't always aspire to it.